CONVOS | The Iceberg Gay Dilemma and Why It's OK Not To Be On Top

The tip of the iceberg image, with alpha guys on top poses a real problematic stance for the LGBTQ+ community. Looking at it devoid of personal bias, and so I ask if it's fair to ignore sentiments like these on the basis of generational life experience lenses. I remember how a former Professor stated that your experience will never be my experience, hence interpretation of reality is relative (from a Filipino Communicative Behavior Model). And to rebuke the what could be a legit distress call from a different generation might also be counter intuitive when all we want to achieve is a harmonious co-existence.

CONVOS | The Problem With POGI

Chatting with A today about the possibility of setting up the "orgy" sometime soon but had to tell him that due to this COVID-19 pandemic, it is not going to be easy to do that's why it may take some time. Anyhow he said that he will only become a watcher (just watching the people) and not participate. But told him it is not going to work out that way because all people coming up have to participate one way or another - sexual or something similar.