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Friday, July 25, 2025

NEWS | Tensions Escalate into Open Conflict: Unpacking the Ongoing Cambodia–Thailand War

Southeast Asia at a Boiling Point: Cambodia–Thailand War Intensifies

What began as simmering border tensions has now exploded into a full-scale military conflict between Cambodia and Thailand, marking one of the most serious escalations in Southeast Asia in over a decade. As of July 2025, both nations have mobilized thousands of troops along their shared border, triggering fears of a broader regional instability.

Here’s a comprehensive look into how this war started, what’s currently happening, and what it could mean for the region and the world.

The Spark: A Border Dispute Decades in the Making

The seeds of the current conflict were sown decades ago, rooted in territorial disputes around the Preah Vihear Temple, a UNESCO World Heritage site located on a cliff in the Dângrêk Mountains. Though the International Court of Justice (ICJ) ruled in 1962 that the temple belonged to Cambodia, the surrounding land has remained disputed. Skirmishes in 2008, 2011, and several other minor clashes since have continued to fuel nationalist sentiment in both countries.

Tensions reignited in late May 2025, when a Cambodian military patrol accused Thai forces of illegally entering a demilitarized zone and erecting a temporary outpost. In retaliation, Cambodia reinforced its military installations along the northwestern border. This tit-for-tat escalation culminated in an intense exchange of artillery fire near Oddar Meanchey Province on June 8, 2025, which left at least 27 soldiers and civilians dead on both sides.

Current Situation on the Ground

As of July 25, 2025, fighting has expanded to multiple provinces including Oddar Meanchey, Preah Vihear, and Banteay Meanchey on the Cambodian side, and Sisaket, Surin, and Sa Kaeo in northeastern Thailand. Both governments have declared partial martial law in their border regions and ordered mass evacuations.

Cambodia has accused Thailand of launching airstrikes on civilian infrastructure, while Thailand claims its actions are “defensive and proportionate” in response to Cambodian incursions and alleged use of paramilitary groups. Independent verification remains difficult due to limited access granted to journalists and humanitarian organizations.

Military analysts report that both armies are now using heavy artillery, drones, and mechanized infantry, a significant step up from previous border clashes. Cambodia’s Prime Minister Hun Manet has vowed to “defend every inch of sovereign territory,” while Thailand’s Prime Minister Srettha Thavisin declared in a televised address, “We did not seek this war, but we will end it on our terms.”

Humanitarian Impact and Civilian Displacement

More than 180,000 civilians have been displaced from both sides of the border. Refugees report destroyed homes, landmines, and lack of access to food, clean water, and medical aid. Makeshift camps have sprung up along the Thai provinces of Ubon Ratchathani and Buriram, as well as within Cambodia’s Battambang Province.

The Red Cross, Doctors Without Borders, and UNHCR have deployed limited teams, but access remains highly restricted due to ongoing shelling and road blockades. There are growing fears of a humanitarian crisis, particularly in areas where infrastructure has been heavily damaged.

ASEAN’s Struggles to Mediate

The Association of Southeast Asian Nations (ASEAN) has historically emphasized diplomacy and non-intervention, but this conflict is testing its limits. An emergency ASEAN summit held in Jakarta on July 18, 2025, ended without a joint resolution after member states failed to reach consensus on direct intervention or sanctions.

Indonesia and Vietnam have called for an immediate ceasefire, while Laos and Myanmar have remained silent. Singapore and the Philippines have expressed concern over the threat to regional economic stability and trade corridors.

International Response

Global powers have begun weighing in cautiously. The United States and European Union have called for de-escalation and offered to mediate, while China, which holds significant economic and political influence over both countries, has remained publicly neutral but is reportedly engaging in backchannel diplomacy.

The United Nations Security Council held a closed-door session on July 22, with UN Secretary-General António Guterres urging restraint and offering peacekeeping support “if both sides request neutral mediation.” No official resolution has yet been passed.

The Role of Nationalism and Social Media

Nationalist rhetoric has surged in both countries, inflamed by state-controlled media, viral misinformation, and TikTok-fueled war propaganda. Cambodian and Thai citizens have taken to social platforms to express outrage, support for troops, and disdain for the opposing side. Government censorship and digital restrictions are now increasing, particularly in Cambodia, where opposition groups claim the conflict is being used to silence dissent and distract from domestic issues.

What’s at Stake?

Beyond the immediate bloodshed, the Cambodia–Thailand conflict risks:

  • Destabilizing ASEAN’s unity

  • Disrupting Mekong River trade and agriculture

  • Inviting broader regional militarization

  • Jeopardizing tourism, a major income source for both nations

  • Triggering internal political unrest if the conflict drags on

The war is also drawing comparisons to past regional conflicts, such as the 1979 Vietnamese invasion of Cambodia and the 2011 Thai-Cambodian clashes, though analysts warn that the scale and pace of escalation this time are unprecedented.

Is Peace Possible?

Both governments have shown little willingness to back down, as nationalist pressures and territorial pride overrule diplomatic pragmatism. The best-case scenario now hinges on international mediation, perhaps under ASEAN or UN auspices, and an immediate ceasefire agreement to prevent further loss of life.

Until then, the war between Cambodia and Thailand marks a dangerous new chapter in Southeast Asia’s geopolitics—one that could have ripple effects far beyond their shared border.


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Wednesday, July 23, 2025

TRAVEL | Puerto Galera 2025: Where Gays, Chaos, and Check-In Times Collide

Where do I even begin?

This year’s Puerto Galera edition was, dare I say, a masterpiece in organized chaos. Unlike last year’s minimalist collection of 10 lost souls and a failed group coordinator (read: flop era), this time we leveled up with 20 fabulous attendees squeezed into 6 rooms. A glamorous logistical puzzle, but at least I was there to steer the glittery ship myself.

It’s still a relatively “small” group—especially compared to those mega gay exoduses where 100 half-naked men descend upon an island like a RuPaul army. But as I always say: under 50 gays = manageable. Over 50 = start praying to Santa Santino. Puerto Galera Holy Week is our annual excuse to leave behind the sins of the city and commit brand new ones by the beach, complete with glitter, rum, and terrible decisions. My role? Fairy godmother of accommodations, land travel, and trying not to scream.

Thursday, July 17, 2025

TRAVEL | The Great La Union Labor Day Fiasco

So, picture this: I’m sprawled on my couch, recovering from the financial bloodbath of back-to-back shindigs in Bangkok and Puerto Galera, when ping—a random message about a La Union trip for Labor Day pops up. My brain’s like, “Bruh, you’re broke, and this is soon.” But my heart’s screaming, “YOLO, it’s La Union, let’s surf this wave!” So, naturally, I yeet caution to the wind and say, “Screw it, we’re doing this.”

TRAVEL | Discovering La Union: The New Summer Hotspot for LaborUnion Festivities

Fresh from the vibrant shores of Puerto Galera, our group was buzzing with excitement for our next adventure: La Union, the rising star of summer destinations in the Philippines. Known for its LaborUnion festivities, La Union has emerged as a top getaway spot, especially around May 1st, a national holiday that gives Filipinos the perfect excuse to escape the hustle of Manila for a few days of sun, sand, and celebration. But what makes La Union the go-to destination for summer revelry, especially after Boracay’s iconic Laboracay lost its sparkle? Let’s dive into why “Elyu,” as locals affectionately call it, is stealing the spotlight.

From Laboracay to LaborUnion: A New Era of Celebration

For years, Boracay’s Laboracay was the place to be for Labor Day. The island’s white sands, pulsating nightlife, and beachfront parties drew crowds, especially from the LGBTQ+ community, who embraced its lively, inclusive vibe. However, the 2018 Boracay closure and subsequent reforms changed the game. Strict regulations banned vendors and stalls from the shore, dimming the island’s once-electrifying atmosphere. For many, Boracay lost its magic, paving the way for La Union to take center stage with its LaborUnion festivities.

Held annually around May 1st, LaborUnion has become a vibrant alternative, blending beachside revelry with La Union’s laid-back charm. The holiday’s timing, combined with La Union’s proximity to Manila—just a 5-6 hour drive via the MacArthur Highway or Tarlac-Pangasinan-La Union Expressway (TPLEx)—makes it an easy escape for urban dwellers. Whether you’re traveling by bus (Partas, Viron, or Dominion offer reliable routes) or car, Elyu is accessible and welcoming, with a vibe that’s both relaxed and festive.

Wednesday, July 16, 2025

AWARDS | 2025 Emmy Nominations: Full Breakdown & Highlights

The Emmys are back, and this year’s show is shaping up to be a full-on streaming showdown. HBO, Netflix, Apple TV+—everyone’s bringing their A-game, with Succession, The Bear, and Beef leading the buzz. Expect high fashion, hot takes, and at least one viral acceptance speech. With categories more stacked than ever and fan-favorite casts making a return to the red carpet, the night isn’t just about awards—it’s a live-feed frenzy of culture, drama, and those blink-and-you’ll-miss-it meme moments. Whether you're in it for the trophies or the tweets, this year’s Emmys are not to be scrolled past.

Tuesday, June 24, 2025

TRAVEL | My Wild & Eye-Opening Songkran 2025 Experience in Bangkok (No Dodgy Stuff, I Promise)

It’s been a couple of months since Songkran 2025 in Bangkok, but the memories are still fresh—and honestly, unforgettable. Songkran isn’t just a water festival; it’s a full-blown, city-wide, soul-resetting experience that leaves you drenched in excitement, culture, and a bit of chaos (in the best way). If you’re curious what it’s like to experience Songkran solo while keeping things clean and classy, here’s a glimpse into my unforgettable trip to Thailand.

I just have to say, when it comes to events like Songkran, choosing the right group of people to hang out with makes all the difference. I can’t even imagine how the experience would’ve felt if my crew hadn’t been all-in—wading through muddy streets during water gun fights, or chasing late-night street food like it was part of the adventure. Those moments weren’t just fun—they were unforgettable. They gave my time in Bangkok a sense of realness, of authenticity. Sure, there’s nothing wrong with a bit of luxury—fancy restaurants, posh hotels—but to me, a real vacation means diving into the chaos, getting messy, and living like a local. That’s where the magic is. That’s legit immersion.

Friday, April 25, 2025

TRAVEL | Puerto Galera 2025: Mga Realizations Sa Isla

So ayun na nga, mga papi - Puerto Galera 2025 happened. Akala ko pupunta lang tayo para mag-beach, mag-party, at mag-feeling cute. Pero as always, andun din yung mga life lessons na binigay nung isla. Let me break it down for y’all — baka makatulong sa future trip mo.

Friday, February 7, 2025

MUSIC | Lady Gaga's Iconic Return: A Look at Her Top 10 Most Recognized Songs


Lady Gaga’s latest single, Abracadabra, from her newly released album, has taken the world by storm. This electrifying track has been praised for bringing back Gaga’s signature sound—edgy, danceable, and undeniably catchy. Fans and critics alike have compared it to her earlier club anthems, solidifying its place as a true dance hit. To celebrate Lady Gaga’s triumphant return to her dance-pop roots, we’re taking a look at the top 10 most notably recognized songs from her legendary career. Spanning multiple albums and showcasing her versatility as an artist, these tracks have left a lasting impact on pop music and culture.

MOVIES | Top 10 Best Gay Movies with Happy Endings for Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is all about love, and what better way to celebrate than by watching a heartfelt movie that showcases beautiful LGBTQ+ love stories with happy endings? Whether you’re planning a cozy night in with your partner or indulging in some solo self-care, these films offer romance, joy, and unforgettable storytelling. Here are the top 10 best gay movies with happy endings to watch for Valentine’s Day.

Saturday, February 1, 2025

MOVIE REVIEWS | Exploring LGBTQ+ Cinema: A Guide to Gay Films by Mood and Genre

LGBTQ+ cinema has long been a powerful medium for storytelling, capturing the nuances of love, struggle, joy, and identity. Whether you're in the mood for a heart-wrenching romance, a lighthearted comedy, or an intense drama, there's something for everyone. Here’s a curated list of gay films, grouped by mood and genre, with brief synopses to help you decide what to watch next.