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Saturday, September 13, 2025

ARTICLE | A Critique of Mandatory HIV Testing for Residency Renewal

For many expatriates, myself included, renewing a resident visa comes with a familiar routine: undergoing a mandatory medical test. On the surface, this requirement appears to be just another bureaucratic step in maintaining legal status. Yet, when revealed, the test is often focused almost exclusively on HIV. This focus raises serious ethical, human rights, and public health questions.

Global HIV Situation: Progress & Context

To understand why HIV testing is still so prominent—and why policies that use it to restrict rights feel discriminatory—it’s useful to review where the global epidemic stands today, according to the most recent WHO / UNAIDS reports:

  • At the end of 2024, an estimated 40.8 million people globally were living with HIV (with confidence intervals around 37.0–45.6 million). (World Health Organization)

  • In 2024 there were around 1.3 million new infections (range ≈1.0–1.7 million) globally. (UNAIDS)

  • Approximately 630,000 people died from AIDS-related illnesses in that year. (UNAIDS)

  • Treatment access has expanded: about 31.6 million people (∼77% of all people living with HIV) were receiving antiretroviral therapy (ART) by end-2024. (UNAIDS)

  • However, treatment coverage for children is lagging. Only about 55% of children aged 0-14 living with HIV had access to ART. (UNAIDS)

These numbers show both the substantial strides made in detection and therapy, and the remaining gaps—among children, in less accessible populations, and in meeting the global targets. The epidemic is still very much alive, but it is also changing: more people are surviving, and more are aware of their status.

The Discrimination of HIV-Related Immigration/Residency Requirements

Given the context above—that most people with HIV are being treated, many know their status, and HIV is no longer the immediate death sentence it once was—the policy of linking visa or residency rights to HIV status seems increasingly out of step with modern public health knowledge and human rights norms. Here are some key points:

  1. Stigma & Discrimination Persist
    Even as detection, treatment, and viral suppression improve, stigma remains strong. One of the most direct forms of this is restrictions on entry, stay and residence for people living with HIV. UNAIDS has documented that such restrictions are among the “long-standing and disturbing indicators of discrimination.” (UNAIDS)

  2. The Public Health Logic Is Weak
    The public health justification for requiring HIV testing for visa or residency renewal is generally built on the idea of preventing spread. But modern treatment (ART) can reduce viral load to undetectable levels, at which point a person cannot sexually transmit HIV. Many people on ART are living normal lives without endangering others. The policy, therefore, punishes people not for risk but for diagnosis.

  3. Global and Donor Funding Trends Threaten Progress
    There are worrisome signs that gains can be undone if support weakens. Recent studies warn that cuts in international HIV aid (including for treatment, prevention, and testing) could lead to millions more infections and deaths by 2030. For example, one Lancet HIV study projects that aid cuts could cause up to 2.9 million more HIV-related deaths by 2030. (The Guardian)

  4. New Prevention Tools Make the “Testing-only” Approach Obsolete
    The WHO has recently recommended a new HIV prevention tool: lenacapavir, a twice-yearly injectable drug, as an alternative to daily oral medication. This offers people more options, especially those who have issues with daily adherence, stigma, or access. The roll-out of such tools makes policies that punish people based solely on serostatus feel even more outdated. (Reuters)

Ethical, Human Rights & Policy Critique

Given the data and the modern context of HIV, the visa/renewal requirement centered on HIV becomes problematic on multiple levels:

  • Violation of Human Rights / Equality: When HIV status becomes a barrier to residency, work, or movement, it infringes on rights recognized in international human rights instruments—equal treatment before the law, freedom from discrimination, right to work, etc. Forcing a medical test that can strip someone of their livelihood or legal status skews the balance heavily in favor of control over care.

  • Disproportionate Impact: Those most affected tend to be those with fewer resources: people from poorer countries, people of certain demographics, or marginalized populations who may already face discrimination. Mandatory HIV testing tied to residency can deepen inequalities.

  • Counterproductive for Public Health: Fear of discrimination or expulsion may lead people to avoid getting tested, or to lie or hide their status, undermining the public health goals of early detection and treatment. HIV prevention works best in a regime of trust, confidentiality, and support, not of punishment.

  • Missed Opportunities: If policies instead focused on universal access to prevention tools, testing (voluntary, confidential), treatment, education, and reducing stigma, the outcomes would likely be better. The recent roll-out of long-acting prevention (e.g. injectable forms) and better global rates of treatment show that the epidemic is manageable, in large part, through medical advances and safer policy frameworks.

Mandatory HIV testing for visa or residency renewal, when that test is used as a weapon to deny rights, no longer fits the current reality.

We know:

  • tens of millions of people living with HIV are on treatment;

  • many don’t transmit the virus when treated properly;

  • discrimination in policy undermines both health and dignity;

  • the epidemic’s burden is still major, but its shape is changing;

So to force a person to prove their HIV-status under threat of losing the right to live / work / stay borders on injustice. HIV is serious—and testing is vital—but it must be applied with compassion, proportionality, and respect. Rights should not be forfeited due to a diagnosis.


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Friday, September 12, 2025

THE QUIET CORNER | Existing But Not Living

The past few days, I’ve noticed something unsettling about myself. It feels like I’ve degenerated. Not in the dramatic, world-ending kind of way, but in the quiet, almost invisible sense where you suddenly realize that the spark you once carried has dimmed into something you can barely feel anymore. I used to look forward to people. Conversations. Even the things I once loved doing. Now, when I come home after a long day, all I want to do is collapse into bed. No music, no books, no hobbies, no laughter — just the dead weight of exhaustion pressing me into my mattress. Is this depression? Or is it some kind of soul crush — that strange emptiness where you’re not exactly broken, but you’re not alive either. Days roll into each other, and the future doesn’t even glimmer. It just looks… blank.

I work three jobs. Three. And yet my bank account looks like it belongs to someone who isn’t trying. Every deposit vanishes almost as quickly as it arrives, and there’s nothing left to hold onto at the end of the month. I keep running, but the finish line doesn’t exist. My wallet feels empty, and honestly — so does my soul. People tell me hard work pays off, but lately, it feels more like hard work just pays the bills. Nothing more. No security, no joy, no sense of accomplishment. Just another day survived.

Maybe that’s what’s bothering me most: I’m not living, I’m just existing. But here’s the thing — even in this emptiness, I’m still aware of it. And that awareness means something. It means I haven’t fully given up. It means there’s still a part of me that craves more, that refuses to believe life is just about working until you collapse.

I may feel bankrupt in spirit today, but tomorrow is still mine to claim. Change doesn’t have to come in one dramatic leap — sometimes it starts with one tiny act of rebellion against the emptiness. Taking a walk. Calling a friend. Writing a few words down, even if they don’t make sense. Choosing to do one thing that reminds me I’m human, not a machine.

The truth is, a bank account can be refilled — and so can a soul. Maybe slowly, maybe painfully, but definitely. And one day, I’ll look back at this season of survival and realize it wasn’t the end of me — it was the beginning of a new way of living.

I don’t just want to exist. I want to live. And I’m not giving up on that.



The Quiet Corner is a weekly Friday feature on this blog, offering reflections on the everyday musings that occupy the mind. It's a space where Filipinos in their early to late 30s can find relatable insights on navigating life’s balancing act—work, relationships, and all the little moments in between. Whether you're juggling responsibilities or just seeking a moment to breathe, The Quiet Corner is here to resonate with your journey.

Thursday, July 31, 2025

ARTICLE | What We Talk About When We Talk About La Union

There’s a particular kind of exhaustion that doesn’t come from long bus rides or late-night drinks—it comes from showing up for people who don’t show up for you. I didn’t know that would be the takeaway when I said yes to a spontaneous Labor Day trip to La Union. All I knew then was that my last few weeks had been a blur of overpriced cocktails, chaotic group chats, and the kind of emotional whiplash that only comes from partying too hard and trusting too easily. Bangkok. Puerto Galera. And now, apparently, the beach town of La Union. I said yes because I always do. Because the idea of another weekend spent “recovering” felt more suffocating than spending it in a car full of vague plans and flaky friends. Because there’s always the hope that this time, the chaos will be worth it. Spoiler: it wasn’t. But also—maybe it was. In a different way.

Friday, July 25, 2025

NEWS | Tensions Escalate into Open Conflict: Unpacking the Ongoing Cambodia–Thailand War

Southeast Asia at a Boiling Point: Cambodia–Thailand War Intensifies

What began as simmering border tensions has now exploded into a full-scale military conflict between Cambodia and Thailand, marking one of the most serious escalations in Southeast Asia in over a decade. As of July 2025, both nations have mobilized thousands of troops along their shared border, triggering fears of a broader regional instability. Here’s a comprehensive look into how this war started, what’s currently happening, and what it could mean for the region and the world.

Wednesday, July 23, 2025

TRAVEL | Puerto Galera 2025: Where Gays, Chaos, and Check-In Times Collide

Where do I even begin? This year’s Puerto Galera edition was, dare I say, a masterpiece in organized chaos. Unlike last year’s minimalist collection of 10 lost souls and a failed group coordinator (read: flop era), this time we leveled up with 20 fabulous attendees squeezed into 6 rooms. A glamorous logistical puzzle, but at least I was there to steer the glittery ship myself. It’s still a relatively “small” group—especially compared to those mega gay exoduses where 100 half-naked men descend upon an island like a RuPaul army. But as I always say: under 50 gays = manageable. Over 50 = start praying to Santa Santino. Puerto Galera Holy Week is our annual excuse to leave behind the sins of the city and commit brand new ones by the beach, complete with glitter, rum, and terrible decisions. My role? Fairy godmother of accommodations, land travel, and trying not to scream.

Thursday, July 17, 2025

TRAVEL | The Great La Union Labor Day Fiasco

So, picture this: I’m sprawled on my couch, recovering from the financial bloodbath of back-to-back shindigs in Bangkok and Puerto Galera, when ping—a random message about a La Union trip for Labor Day pops up. My brain’s like, “Bruh, you’re broke, and this is soon.” But my heart’s screaming, “YOLO, it’s La Union, let’s surf this wave!” So, naturally, I yeet caution to the wind and say, “Screw it, we’re doing this.”

TRAVEL | Discovering La Union: The New Summer Hotspot for LaborUnion Festivities

Fresh from the vibrant shores of Puerto Galera, our group was buzzing with excitement for our next adventure: La Union, the rising star of summer destinations in the Philippines. Known for its LaborUnion festivities, La Union has emerged as a top getaway spot, especially around May 1st, a national holiday that gives Filipinos the perfect excuse to escape the hustle of Manila for a few days of sun, sand, and celebration. But what makes La Union the go-to destination for summer revelry, especially after Boracay’s iconic Laboracay lost its sparkle? Let’s dive into why “Elyu,” as locals affectionately call it, is stealing the spotlight.

Wednesday, July 16, 2025

AWARDS | 2025 Emmy Nominations: Full Breakdown & Highlights

The Emmys are back, and this year’s show is shaping up to be a full-on streaming showdown. HBO, Netflix, Apple TV+—everyone’s bringing their A-game, with Succession, The Bear, and Beef leading the buzz. Expect high fashion, hot takes, and at least one viral acceptance speech. With categories more stacked than ever and fan-favorite casts making a return to the red carpet, the night isn’t just about awards—it’s a live-feed frenzy of culture, drama, and those blink-and-you’ll-miss-it meme moments. Whether you're in it for the trophies or the tweets, this year’s Emmys are not to be scrolled past.

Tuesday, June 24, 2025

TRAVEL | My Wild & Eye-Opening Songkran 2025 Experience in Bangkok (No Dodgy Stuff, I Promise)

It’s been a couple of months since Songkran 2025 in Bangkok, but the memories are still fresh—and honestly, unforgettable. Songkran isn’t just a water festival; it’s a full-blown, city-wide, soul-resetting experience that leaves you drenched in excitement, culture, and a bit of chaos (in the best way). If you’re curious what it’s like to experience Songkran solo while keeping things clean and classy, here’s a glimpse into my unforgettable trip to Thailand. I just have to say, when it comes to events like Songkran, choosing the right group of people to hang out with makes all the difference. I can’t even imagine how the experience would’ve felt if my crew hadn’t been all-in—wading through muddy streets during water gun fights, or chasing late-night street food like it was part of the adventure. Those moments weren’t just fun—they were unforgettable. They gave my time in Bangkok a sense of realness, of authenticity. Sure, there’s nothing wrong with a bit of luxury—fancy restaurants, posh hotels—but to me, a real vacation means diving into the chaos, getting messy, and living like a local. That’s where the magic is. That’s legit immersion.

Friday, April 25, 2025

TRAVEL | Puerto Galera 2025: Mga Realizations Sa Isla

So ayun na nga, mga papi - Puerto Galera 2025 happened. Akala ko pupunta lang tayo para mag-beach, mag-party, at mag-feeling cute. Pero as always, andun din yung mga life lessons na binigay nung isla. Let me break it down for y’all — baka makatulong sa future trip mo.